We have at some point argued with our S.O. Turns out when we are arguing there are certain things we should NOT say. I will admit I am 100% guilty of doing some of these thing.
Arguing about more than one thing: Don’t bring up things you have fought about in the past, into the new argument. It doesn’t help things at all, so just focus on what you are having an issue with now.
Blaming Language: Phrases like “You Never Listen,” “You Always Do That,” make things worse. Try to just stick with the language of how you feel.
Feeling Tired Or Hungry: If you are tried or haven’t eaten all day, that can have an effect on how you handle things.
Continuing to Fight: If it turns into a screaming match, it’s time to take a minute or 30. Walking away or putting a pause on the argument is the best way to handle things.
